马男波杰克第五季

她的人生被毁灭了，于是她毁灭了另一个人，从而毁灭了很多其他的人。

这部剧的荒诞之处数不胜数，比如跟三个小孩伪装成的“男人”交往的PC、莫名其妙担任各种要职的Todd、因一句录音而当上公司老板的机器人等，无比荒诞中传递着无比合理的信息。

但最荒诞之处莫过于，主角是最大的反派：毫无责任心、不知廉耻、招摇撞骗、玩弄他人、黄赌毒样样精通……BoJack的罪孽可以说是罄竹难书，而这背后的始作俑者就是他的母亲，也是一个受害者。

Beatrice的童年在她哥哥死前可以称得上完美：事业有成的爸爸、当兵的哥哥，最重要的是她有一个柔情似水、贤良淑德、生了两个孩子依然保持少女身材的妈妈——像极了了不起的麦瑟尔夫人中的麦瑟尔夫人和致命女人中的Beth Ann。

这种笼罩在镜花水月中的完美有一个致命弱点就是，一切必须原封不动地按照既定轨道运行，只要有一丝偏差，就万劫不复。

更何况，发生在Beatrice和Beth Ann家庭中的偏差是那么地巨大——失去了孩子。

于是，一切假象在一瞬间破灭，温文尔雅的妈妈不再能handle everything，文质彬彬的爸爸也露出了真实的嘴脸，最终导致整个家庭分崩离析。

在CrackerJack死前，Beatrice的生活真有呈现出来的那么美好吗？

一个细节就可以证明，表面的万千宠爱后隐藏的仍然是根深蒂固的“嫌弃”：妈妈告诉她，雪糕是给男孩子们吃的，女孩子只能舔一舔冰块。

如果没有哥哥的死，Beatrice也许会继续生活在这种假象中，受着妈妈的潜移默化，变成和妈妈一样的女人，进入一个一样的家庭，过一样的人生。

她有两次可以改变命运的机会，一次是上大学，一次是结婚。

Beatrice的爸爸让她上大学的理由与我身边许多女性朋友的家长想法是一样的：我们花钱让你上大学是为了让你在婚姻市场上更有筹码，不是真的想让你成为什么女学者。

如果没有家庭变故，那么Beatrice大概率会成为麦瑟尔夫人。

可惜，她失去了妈妈这个榜样，童年受过霸凌，又在大学里接受了半吊子的新思想，于是变成了一个不伦不类的人。

择偶是她的第二次机会：本来有机会嫁给有思想有头脑甚至有颜值的富二代，却因意外怀孕而委身浪子，从此在“被嫌弃”的路上彻底无法翻身。

在又一个被什么都不知道的BoJack吵醒的半夜，她狠狠地对儿子、也对自己说：You'd better worth it。

因果循环，另一个生命又走上了被毁灭的道路，而被毁灭的自己的儿子，又在成年以后反过来继续嫌弃着她也被她嫌弃。

死前，她对自己的儿子说：I see you。

这句话到底是什么意思，我至今想不明白，也许BoJack也始终没有完全明白，他只知道，自己再也没有机会拥有一段正常的亲子关系了，只剩下getting worse这一种可能性了。

五季看下来，酣畅淋漓，没有任何违和或者烂尾的感觉。

只是第五季以BoJack去戒毒为结尾，让我不禁疑惑最终季会以怎样的形式收场。

显然，吸毒是果不是因，BoJack的人生不可能在戒毒之后就得到救赎。

But I still love BoJack, because when you think your life is a hole, look at BoJack and you will realize how lucky you are.

So I stopped at a Jack in the Box on the way here, and the girl behind the counter said, “Hiya! Are you having an awesome day?” Not, “How are you doing today?” No. “Are you having an awesome day?” Which is pretty… shitty, because it puts the onus on me to disagree with her, like if I’m not having an “awesome day,” suddenly I’m the negative one.Usually when people ask how I’m doing, the real answer is I’m doing shitty, but I can’t say I’m doing shitty because I don’t even have a good reason to be doing shitty. So if I say, “I’m doing shitty,” then they say, “Why? What’s wrong?” And I have to be like, “I don’t know, all of it?” So instead, when people ask how I’m doing, I usually say, “I am doing so great.”But when this girl at the Jack in the Box asked me if I was having an awesome day, I thought, “Well, today I’m actually allowed to feel shitty.” Today I have a good reason, so I said to her, “Well, my mom died,” and she immediately burst into tears. So now I have to comfort her, which is annoying, and meanwhile, there’s a line of people forming behind me who are all giving me these real judgy looks because I made the Jack in the Box girl cry. And she’s bawling, and she’s saying, “I’m sorry, I’m so sorry,” and I’m like, “It’s fine. It’s fine.” I mean, it’s not fine but, you know, it’s… fine. And I would like to order a Double Jack Meal, and I’ve kinda got somewhere to be, so maybe less with the crying and more with the frying, huh? [inhales] And the girl apologizes again and she offers me a free churro with my meal. And as I’m leaving, I think, “I just got a free churro because my mom died.” No one ever tells you that when your mom dies, you get a free churro.[people murmuring][clears throat]Anyway, I’m sorry, that’s not part of the… [clears throat] All right. Okay, here we go. Let’s do this. Here I am, BoJack Horseman, doing a eulogy, let’s go. Hey, piano man, can I get a, like an organ flourish? [organ plays] Nicely done. You know, I was a little worried I wouldn’t have the right accompaniment today. I guess it’s a good thing my mom was an organ donor! [rimshot plays] What happened to the organ? [horn ‘oogahs’] Okay, why just leave the comedy to the professionals? Okay? This is a funeral, sir, for my mother. Can you show a little respect? [trumpet whines] I’ll take it.Beatrice Horseman, who was she? What was her deal? Well, she was a horse. Uh, she was born in 1938. She died in 2018. One time, she went to a parade, and one time, she smoked an entire cigarette in one long inhale. I watched her do it. Truly a remarkable woman.[rustling]Lived a full life, that lady. Just, all the way to the end, which is, uh, now I guess. Really makes you think, though, huh? Life, right? Goes by, stuff happens. Then you die. Okay, well that’s my time, you’ve been great! Tip your waitress! No, I’m just kidding around, there’s no waitress. But seriously, that’s all I have to say about my mother. No point beating a dead horse, right? So…[inhales] Now what? I don’t know. Mom, you got any ideas? Anything? Mom? No? Nothing to contribute? Knock once if you’re proud of me.Can I just say how amazing it is to be in a room with my mother, and I can just talk and talk without her telling me to shut up and make her a drink? Hey, Mom, knock once if you think I should shut up. No? You sure? I mean, I don’t want to embarrass you by making this eulogy into a me-logy, so, seriously, if you wanted me to sit down and let someone else talk, just knock. I will not be offended. No? Your funeral.Sorry about the closed casket, by the way. She wanted an open casket, but uh, you know, she’s dead now, so who cares what she wanted? No, that sounds bad. I’m sorry. I-I think that if she could’ve seen what she looked like dead, she’d agree it’s better this way. She looked like this.[groaning][mourners gasping]Kinda like a pissed-off toy dinosaur. The coroner couldn’t get her eyes closed, so now her face is forever frozen in a mask of tremendous horror and anguish. Or as my mom called it, Tuesday! Tuesday! My mom called it Tuesday.[woman coughs]Hey, Mom, what did you think of that joke? You like that? You never did care for my comedy.[clears throat]Here’s a story. When I was a teenager, I performed a comedy routine for my high school talent show. There was this, uh, cool jacket that I wanted to wear because I thought it would make me look like Albert Brooks. For months, I saved up for this jacket. But when I finally had enough, I went to the store and it was gone. They had just sold it to someone else. So, I went home and I told my mother, and she said, “Let that be a lesson. That’s the good that comes from wanting things.” She was really good at dispensing life lessons that always seemed to circle back to everything being my fault.But then, on the day of the talent show, my mother had a surprise for me. She had bought me the jacket. Even though she didn’t know how to say it, I know this meant that she loved me.Now that’s a good story about my mother. It’s not true, but it’s a good story, right? I stole it from an episode of Maude I saw when I was a kid, where she talks about her father. I remember when I saw it, thinking, “That’s the kind of story I want to tell about my parents when they die.” But I don’t have any stories like that. All I know about being good, I learned from TV. And in TV, flawed characters are constantly showing people they care with these surprising grand gestures. And I think that part of me still believes that’s what love is. But in real life, the big gesture isn’t enough. You need to be consistent, you need to be dependably good. You can’t just screw everything up and then take a boat out into the ocean to save your best friend, or solve a mystery, and fly to Kansas. You need to do it every day, which is so… hard.When you’re a kid, you convince yourself that maybe the grand gesture could be enough, that even though your parents aren’t what you need them to be over and over and over again, at any moment, they might surprise you with something… wonderful. I kept waiting for that, the proof that even though my mother was a hard woman, deep down, she loved me and cared about me and wanted me to know that I made her life a little bit brighter. Even now, I find myself waiting.Hey, Mom, knock once if you love me and care about me and want me to know I made your life a little bit brighter.[owl chirping]My mother did not go gentle into that good night. She went clawing and fighting and thrashing, hence the face.[groaning][mourners gasping]If you’d seen her, I swear to God the only thing you’d be thinking about right now is that I am nailing this impression.[woman clears her throat][chairs squeak]I was in the hospital with her those last moments, and they were truly horrifying, full of nonsencial screams and cries, but there was this moment, this one instant of strange calm, where she looked in my direction and said, “I see you.” That’s the last thing she said to me. “I see you.” Not a statement of judgment or disappointment, just acceptance and the simple recognition of another person in a room. “Hello there. You are a person. And I see you.”Let me tell you, it’s a weird thing to feel at 54 years old, that for the first time in your life your mother sees you. It’s an odd realization that that’s the thing you’ve been missing, the only thing you wanted all along, to be seen. And it doesn’t feel like a relief, to finally be seen. It feels mean, like, “Oh, it turns out that you knew what I wanted, and you waited until the very last moment to give it to me.” I was prepared for more cruelty. I was sure that she would get in one final zinger about how I let her down, and about how I was fat and stupid and too tall to be an effective Lindy-hopper. How I was needy and a burden and an embarrassment—all that I was ready for. I was not ready for “I see you.” Only my mother would be lousy enough to swipe me with a moment of connection on her way out. But maybe I’m giving her too much credit. Maybe it wasn’t about connection. Maybe it was a… maybe it was an “I see you,” like, uh, “I see you.” Like, “You might have the rest of the world fooled, but I know exactly who you are.” That’s more my mom’s speed.Or maybe she just literally meant “I see you. You are an object that has entered my field of vision.” She was pretty out of it at the end, so maybe it’s dumb to try to attribute it to anything.[woman sighs]Back in the 90s, I was in a very famous TV show called Horsin’ Around.[man coughs]Please hold your applause. And I remember one time, a fan asked me, “Hey, um, you know that episode where the horse has to give Ethan a pep talk after Ethan finds out his crush only asked him to the dance because her friends were having a dorkiest date contest? In all the shots of the horse, you can see a paper coffee cup on the kitchen counter, but in the shots of Ethan, the coffee cup’s missing. Was that because the show was making a statement about the fluctuant subjectivity of memory and how even two people can experience the same moment in entirely different ways?” And I didn’t have the heart to be, like, “No, man, some crew guy just left their coffee cup in the shot.” So instead, I was, like… “Yeah.”And maybe this is like that coffee cup. Maybe we’re dumb to try to pin significance onto every little thing. Maybe when someone says, “I see you,” it just means, “I see you.” Then again, it’s possible she wasn’t even talking to me because, if I’m being honest, she wasn’t really looking at me. She was looking just past me. There was nobody else in the room, so I want to think she was talking to me, but, honestly, she was so far gone at that point, who knows what she was seeing? Who were you talking to, Mom? [sighs] Not saying, huh? Staying mum? No rimshot there? God, whatever I’m paying you, it’s too much.Maybe she saw my dad. My dad died about ten years ago of injuries he sustained during a duel. When your father dies, you ask yourself a lot of questions. Questions like, “Wait, did you say he died in a duel?” and “Who dies in a duel?” The whole thing was so stupid. Dad spent his entire life writing this book, but he couldn’t get any stores to carry it or any newspapers to review it. Finally, I guess this one newspaper thought he was pretty hilarious, because they ran a review and tore him to shreds. So my father, ever the proud Mary, decided he would not stand for this besmirchment of his honor. He claimed the critic didn’t understand what it meant to be a man, so he demanded satisfaction in the form of pistols at dawn. He wrote the paper this letter, saying anyone who didn’t like his book, he would challenge to a duel, anyone in the world. He’d even pay for airfare to San Francisco and a night in a hotel. Well, eventually this found its way to some kook in Montana, who was as batshit as he was and took him up on the offer. They met at Golden Gate Park and agreed: ten paces, then shoot. But in the middle of the ten paces, Dad turned to ask the guy if he’d actually read the book and what he thought, but, not looking where he was going, tripped over an exposed root and bashed his head on a rock.[murmur]I wish I’d known to go to Jack in the Box then. Maybe I could have gotten a free churro. It would’ve been nice to have something to show for being the son of Butterscotch Horseman. My darling mother gave the eulogy. My entire life I never heard her say a kind word to or about my father, but at his funeral she said, “My husband is dead, and everything is worse now.”“My husband is dead, and everything is worse now.” I don’t know why she said that. Maybe she felt like that’s the kind of thing you’re supposed to say at a funeral. Maybe she hoped one day someone would say that about her. “My mother is dead, and everything is worse now.” Or maybe she knew that he had frittered away all her inheritance, and replaced it with crippling debt, which is a pretty shitty thing to leave your widow with. “Bad news, you lost a husband, but don’t worry, you also lost the house!” Maybe Mom knew she’d have to sell all her fancy jewelry and move into a home. Maybe that’s what she meant by “everything is worse now.” Is that what you meant, Mom?I gotta say, I’m really carrying this double act. At least with Penn and Teller, the quiet one does card tricks. Hey, piano man, when I say something funny to my mom, how about you give me one of those rimshots?[rimshot plays]Yeah, but not now. When I say something funny. Like, okay. What’s the difference between my mother and a disruptive expulsion of germs? One’s a coughin’ fit and the other fits a coffin! That’s an example of a funny thing.[rimshot plays]Thank you. Let’s try again. Hey, Mom. What’s the difference between my mother and a bunch of Easter eggs? One gets carried in a basket, the other gets buried in a casket![rimshot plays]Ready for one more? Last one. What’s the difference between a first-year lit major and my mother, Beatrice Horseman? One is decently read, and the other’s a huge bitch![woman gasps][murmurs]Yeah, might have gone a little too far with that one. That one might’ve been a little too “my mom’s a huge bitch” for the room. I’m sorry, Mother. You’re not a huge bitch. You were a huge bitch… and now you’re dead.[woman sighs]You know, the first time I ever performed in front of an audience, it actually was, uh, with my mom. She used to put on these shows with her supper club in the living room and she used to make… [inhales] She used to make me sing “The Lollipop Song.”[organ playing tune]Those parties, they were really something. There were skits and magic acts, and ethnically insensitive vaudeville routines, and the big finale was always a dance my mother did. She had this beautiful dress that she only brought out for these parties, and she did this incredible number. It was so beautiful and sad. Dad hated the parties. He’d lock himself in the study, and bang on the walls for us to keep it down, but he always came out to see Mom dance. He’d linger in the doorway, scotch in hand, and watch in awe, as this cynical, despicable woman he married… took flight. And as a child who was completely terrified of both my parents, I was always aware that this moment of grace, it meant something. We understood each other in a way. Me and my mom and my dad, as screwed up as we all were, we did understand each other. My mother, she knew what it’s like to feel your entire life like you’re drowning, with the exception of these moments, these very rare, brief instances, in which you suddenly remember… you can swim.[flashback][partygoers laughing][classical music playing]But then again, mostly not. Mostly you’re drowning. She understood that, too. And she recognized that I understood it. And Dad. All three of us were drowning, and we didn’t know how to save each other, but there was an understanding that we were all drowning together. And I would like to think that that’s what she meant when we were in the hospital and she said, “I see you.”You know, the weird thing about both your parents being dead is it means that you’re next. I mean, you know, obviously it’s not like there’s a waitlist for dying. Any one of us could get run over by a Snapchatting teen at any moment. And you would think that knowing that would make us more adventurous, and kind, and forgiving. But it makes us small, and stupid, and petty.I actually had a near-death experience recently. A stunt went bad and I fell off a building. I’m an actor, I do my own stunts. I’m on this new show Philbert. I’m Philbert. Star of the show. It hasn’t come out yet, but it’s already getting Emmy buzz. Oh, speaking of buzz… [inhales] I’m supposed to take two of these every morning, but my days are so screwed up ‘cause of the shooting schedule, I don’t even know what morning means anymore. There’s a joke in there somewhere, about a guy who’s been to so many funerals, he doesn’t even know what mourning means anymore. Let you guys figure that one out for yourselves. [gulps]Anyway, you know what I thought, when I was falling off the building and I went into panic mode? The last thing that my stupid brain could come up with before I died? “Won’t they be sorry.” Cool thought, brain.[rimshot plays]No, that wasn’t… would you just… dial it back, all right?I don’t even know what “they” I wanted to be sorry. My mom, even before she died, could barely remember who I was. And of course, my dad’s dead. The last conversation I ever had with him was about his novel. He was so certain this book was his legacy. Maybe he thought it would vindicate him for all the shitty things he ever did in his stupid worthless life. Maybe it did, I don’t know. I never read it, because why would I give him that?I used to be on this TV show called Horsin’ Around. Seriously, though, hold your applause.[man coughs]Well held. It was written by my friend Herb Kazzaz, who’s also dead now, and it starred this little girl named Sarah Lynn. And it was about these orphans. And early on, the network had a note, “Maybe don’t mention they’re orphans so much, because audiences tend to find orphans sad and not relatable.” But I never thought that the orphans were sad. I-I always thought they were lucky, because they could imagine their parents to be anything they wanted. They had something to long for.Anyway, we did this one season finale, where Olivia’s birth mother comes to town. And she was a junkie, but she’s gotten herself cleaned up, and she wants to be in Olivia’s life again. And of course, she’s like a perfect grown-up version of Olivia, and they go to the mall together and get her ears pierced like she’s always wanted and—sorry, spoiler alert for the season six finale of Horsin’ Around, if you’re still working your way through it. Anyway, the horse tries to warn her, “Be careful, moms have a way of letting you down.” But Olivia just thinks the horse is jealous, and when the mom says she’s moving to California, Olivia decides to go with her. And the network really juiced the cliffhanger: “Is Olivia gone for good?” But of course, because it’s a TV show, she was not gone for good. Of course, because it’s a TV show, Olivia’s mother had a relapse and had to go back to rehab, so Olivia had to hitchhike all the way home, getting rides from Mr. T, Alf, and the cast of Stomp. Of course, that’s what happened. Because, what are you gonna do, just not have Olivia on the show? You can’t have happy endings in sitcoms, not really, because, if everyone’s happy, the show would be over, and above all else, the show… has to keep going. There’s always more show. And you can call Horsin’ Around dumb, or bad, or unrealistic, but there is nothing more realistic than that. You never get a happy ending, ‘cause there’s always more show.I guess until there isn’t.[chuckles]My mom would hate it if she knew that I spent so much time at her funeral talking about my old TV show. Or maybe she’d think it was funny that her idiot son couldn’t even do this right. Who knows? She left no instructions for what she wanted me to say. All I know is she wanted an open casket, and her idiot son couldn’t even do that right. I’m not gonna stand up here and pretend I ever understood how to please that woman, even though so much of my life has been wasted in vain attempts to figure it out. But I keep going back to that moment in the ICU when she looked at me, and… “I-C-U.”“I… see… you.” Jesus Christ, we were in the intensive care unit. She was just reading a sign. My mom died and all I got was this free churro.You know the shittiest thing about all of this? Is when that stranger behind the counter gave me that free churro, that small act of kindness showed more compassion than my mother gave me her entire goddamn life. Like, how hard is it to do something nice for a person? This woman at the Jack in the Box didn’t even know me. I’m your son! All I had was you! [inhales]I have this friend. And right around when I first met her, her dad died, and I actually went with her to the funeral. And months later, she told me that she didn’t understand why she was still upset, because she never even liked her father. It made sense to me, because I went through the same thing when my dad died. And I’m going through the same thing now. You know what it’s like? It’s like that show Becker, you know, with Ted Danson? I watched the entire run of that show, hoping that it would get better, and it never did. It had all the right pieces, but it just—it couldn’t put them together. And when it got canceled, I was really bummed out, not because I liked the show, but because I knew it could be so much better, and now it never would be. And that’s what losing a parent is like. It’s like Becker.Suddenly, you realize you’ll never have the good relationship you wanted, and as long as they were alive, even though you’d never admit it, part of you, the stupidest goddamn part of you, was still holding on to that chance. And you didn’t even realize it until that chance went away.My mother is dead, and everything is worse now, because now I know I will never have a mother who looks at me from across a room and says, “BoJack Horseman, I see you.” But I guess it’s good to know. It’s good to know that there is nobody looking out for me, that there never was, and there never will be. No, it’s good to know that I am the only one that I can depend on. And I know that now and it’s good. It’s good that I know that. So… it’s good my mother is dead.[gulps, sighs]Well. No point beating a dead horse. Beatrice Horseman was born in 1938, and she died in 2018, and I have no idea… what she wanted. Unless she just wanted what we all want… to be seen.Is this Funeral Parlor B?

戴安跟PB离婚后独自到越南疗伤，归来后尽管仍然深感孤独，但在心中原谅了PB…PB在戴安的帮助下也终于意识到自己三次失败的婚姻根源在于对方成长了而他却始终停留原地…PC的过往再现也让大家明白她的彪悍与高自尊源自何处…马男在妈妈葬礼上的大段独白有点意思，说着说着其实也默默原谅他那十恶不赦的亲妈了…总之呢，跟现实生活一样，每个人都有自己反反复复难以摆平的shitty things，意识到这点，坦白承认“I need help”，也许彼此都会好过很多…

以下剧情概述系一路剧透到底，阅览请慎重。

看完全剧又做完概述，才发现本剧主创在故事中安排的合理因素和草蛇灰线是多么的惊人，这也恰恰是国产剧最不足的地方个人心目中最精彩的几集标题已加粗S05E01 The light Bulb Scene波杰克的新连续剧“Philbert”开拍了，但是他总是对于剧情本身的走向有很多疑问，现场的设计也跟他家很像，所以一直骚扰导演Flip。

作为一贯的BoJack，他在片场跟他对戏的女主角Gina搞在了一处，与此同时他对于本剧物化女性的投诉让导演头疼万分，导演决定与其让他拍摄去Club给脱衣女郎画素描，不如像泰坦尼克号里一样让他给女主角画素描，而这一点也让女主角非常不爽。

于是BoJack继续与导演抗争，导演恼羞成怒，做了一段一段‘你只是在寻求别人对你的关注’的评述后，决定让BoJack拍一段360度裸体拧灯泡，这样就不是物化女性而是物化男性了卡洛琳公主终于下定决心准备领养，她去领养经理人处登记了自己的信息陶德跟无性恋现女友尤兰达、前女友以及前女友的现男友消防员一起double date。

陶德发现自己与现女友除了性特征一样以外都不一样，现女友嫌他没工作没面子，于是陶德出门找工作应聘清洁工，顺利成为该公司广告业务总监（可以这很陶德）S05E02 The Dog Day are Over戴安在离婚后跟花生酱先生一起去餐厅吃饭，花生酱在餐厅搭讪了新女友酸黄瓜。

戴安去BoJack家聊天却无法解除自己的难过（在这个过程中她听到BoJack讲到了关于新墨西哥的故事，但只是开了个头）于是去换了发型衣着。

当戴安去参加花生酱先生的派对，看到他亲别的女人于是情感崩溃，逃到了越南，并写了一篇‘10个去越南理由最拽女生游记’的文章。

在越南她遇见了一个美国小鹰（伙），假装语言不通两人发展出一段如同‘西贡小姐’的爱情故事，却在对方识破她会说英语后破裂。

她最终还是回到了美国，和花生酱先生走完了协议离婚的签字流程S05E03 Planned Obsolescence陶德跟无性恋女友尤兰达去见父母，却要一起伪装成有性恋，因为尤兰达一家都非常的性活跃。

两人花了不少力气伪装，最后尤兰达终于在情势之下在家人面前坦诚自己是无性恋，家人接受了但陶德却提出了分手花生酱先生的新女友酸黄瓜接到建议，决定和花生酱先生take it slow慢慢来，却在去野外观测空间站销毁的路上彼此逐渐打开心扉吉娜和BoJack搬到了一起，却不保持情感关系。

她从小想要演唱音乐剧的理想被BoJack发现，BoJack为她安排了面试但结果不好，吉娜最终放弃了自己的这个理想。

S05E04 BoJack the Feminist卡洛琳公主要问BoJack的新剧找一个男配角，找来了充满暴力史和道歉史的Vice。

媒体却无风起浪，传播BoJack和新来的Vice不合，为了澄清，BoJack上了早餐秀，但是他的发言却被进一步曲解成女权主义和对Vice的抨击，这一点也让Vice和剧组彻底决裂，Vice同时宣传连续剧的剧情充满了物化女性。

为解决这个问题，卡洛琳公主邀请了戴安来包装BoJack并加入剧组成为编剧，又邀请花生酱先生出演本剧的男配角花生酱先生想打造更加强硬的个人性格特征，每一次的强硬却被当成是善良而非强硬的举动，这让他和来帮忙的陶德苦恼万分S05E05 The Amelia Earhart Story卡洛琳公主从小崇拜Amelia Earhart，第一个女性飞行员（她在之后每年的万圣节派对上都装扮成Amelia Earhart，真是骨灰粉）。

她回到北卡老家去见自己准备领养的孩子的母亲，这个过程中她不断想起自己小时候的故事。

她和这个年轻单身母亲一样，不慎怀孕。

不同的是对方的家庭准备接受她和孩子（如果大家还记得的话，一如BoJack的父母的故事，只是男女角色互换），但是突如其来的流产让她刚刚说服自己接受的计划也无法继续，最终她决定追求自己的梦想去了UCLA，但是离开母亲是她心中永远的伤痛波杰克拍特技不慎从房顶跌落摔伤了背，医生给他开了很多止疼片S05E06 Free Churro波杰克在自己母亲的葬礼上致辞（这一集太过神，轻易的解构是对本季最大的不敬，大家还是自己看吧。

片头到片尾就是波杰克的独白，至于为什么叫这个题目，致辞里有）S05E07 INT.SUB本集的故事讲述方式很有趣，是戴安的心理医生和陶德公司的调解专员约会，两个人互相讲述自己工作中遇到的故事。

两条线互相穿插还有交集BoJack母亲去世，却不断封闭自己，让戴安很苦恼，所以戴安在心理医生的建议下决定与BoJack保持距离。

花生酱先生同样发现了自己父母去世却愿意打开自己与他人交流，对比之下让BoJack更加不爽。

BoJack去找戴安的心理医生理论却建立了联系，戴安发现后告诉BoJack自己希望独占这个心理医生（以获得心理上的满足），BoJack却继续私下见心理医生并把医生当成朋友。

但戴安生气的决定不再见这个医生后，BoJack却也逃离了这个医生，他只是需要戴安的注意卡洛琳公主和陶德对于谁吃了冰箱里最后一根奶酪条起了争执……连续剧的导演Flip写作上遇到了困难，戴安挺身而出帮助他写了新的剧情发展，却将BoJack饰演的Philbert这个角色写的无比像BoJack本人（考虑到戴安是BoJack的自传撰稿人，这个说法真是无比的合理）S05E08 Mr Peanutbutter`s Boos本集一样很神，其精彩程度超出了我语言的描述能力。

主要讲述了花生酱先生先后带三位前妻和一位现任女友去BoJack家开万圣节排队的故事。

四条时间线用相同的进度推进，彰显了花生酱先生不断地犯着同一个错误，而戴安是那个清醒的把问题指出的人故事同样讲述了陶德如何来到BoJack家开始沙发客的生活，直指S01E01。

故事也蜻蜓点水的展示了卡洛琳公主和BoJack在好莱坞这25年的变化S05E09 Ancient HistoryBoJack的妹妹Holly在大学假期决定来LA看BoJack，却陷入了对上一季BoJack母亲给她下药的环境恐惧中，销毁了BoJack所有治疗背痛的止痛药。

于是BoJack带着妹妹在深夜的LA四处历险找地方买止痛药却没能买到。

Holly质疑BoJack是真的需要药物还是对止痛药上瘾，BoJack为了继续获得止痛药主动创造了车祸陶德的前女友回来向他诉苦，现男友跟她之间只有性关系没有情感交流。

陶德为了赢回前女友，制造了一个性爱机器人，希望以此赢回前女友的心卡洛琳公主找前男友拉尔夫谈生意，紧急接到领养中心的电话去医院见一个孕妇，拉尔夫提出两人复合却惨遭拒绝。

最后领养没能成功，卡洛琳公主一个人孤独的回家S05E10 Head in the Clouds众人的新剧philbert获得巨大成功，将要举行首映礼。

首映礼上酸黄瓜并不喜欢本剧，先行离开。

BoJack在首映礼后与戴安陷入争吵，认为自己才是自己所有行为的最终受害人，戴安愤怒的提出死去的萨拉琳，BoJack恼羞成怒，表示自己这样丧下去挺好，戴安却说自己对他仍抱有希望。

BoJack最后解释了新墨西哥事件，戴安却对BoJack身上的黑暗异常失望，选择离开。

花生酱先生送戴安回家并留宿陶德带着性爱机器人去上班，机器人却意外成为了他们公司的CEOS05E11The ShowstopperPhilbert大获成功后众人连忙开始拍摄第二季，BoJack却由于角色与自己过于相像，加上自己身上的烂摊子过大和持续增长的对止痛药的上瘾，开始无法分清剧情和现实，压力之下不断的失眠并加大了药物摄入的剂量。

随着拍摄中Philbert的破案，他也认为现实生活中所有人都要对他不利，要把连续剧中的角色和他混为一谈并将他毁掉，而他唯一应该做的就是保护Gina（唉，这是BoJack第一次这样为他人着想，虽然后来……）Gina在同居生活中发现了BoJack药物成瘾，想要扔掉药物却遭到BoJack的暴力对待。

随着Philbert的故事揭晓，杀人犯正是Philbert自己，出演Philbert的BoJack沉浸于角色中，在拍摄时险些掐死GinaS05E12 The Stopped Show花生酱先生和戴安坦白自己还喜欢她，并决定跟酸黄瓜分手。

在分手现场却无法承受传递坏消息的压力，最终向酸黄瓜求婚陶德的性爱机器人CEO被下属举报性骚扰，公司受创被迫大举裁员，性爱机器人和陶德也都被开除，陶德最终毁掉了机器人并脱下西装回到了自己由于BoJack险些掐死Gina，现场被工作人员拍成视频传到网上，剧组被迫公关。

BoJack药物服用过度，已经不记得自己做了什么，看完视频后悔万分，希望找Gina原谅却遭拒绝。

两人顺利完成的公关采访解除了剧组的危机，却彼此劳燕分飞。

BoJack希望忏悔，找到戴安希望曝光自己，戴安告知如果他希望改变，最好的办法就是去戒毒中心待上6周。

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And it breaks my heart, again...after my heart was so broken that I thoughtit could never get any more broken.I thought it was safe,but it still, somehow, finds a new way to break.Because, even though, I'am the one who asked for this,now that I've got it, I am completely adriftwith no compass, or map, or sense of where to go, or what to do.So I go to Nanjing.I think I might find community, a connection to something bigger,but... I don't.In fact, I feel even more alone than I was before I left.But... I survive.I learn that I can survive being alone.I'm really happy for you

焦虑的斑马波波是第七集戴安的心理医生英迪拉为了和她老婆讨论患者八卦时波杰克的化名。

马男波杰克——如果你已经看完了整部剧集——在这一部剧中不再像以前那么浑浑噩噩了，但在结局依然搞砸了一切。

简单地总结起来就是：波杰克以主角出演了一部后来大热的侦探剧，这部剧的剧情就如马男前几季的剧情，吉娜（戴安）试图接近警探菲尔伯特（波杰克）并找出有关他老婆死因的真相（波杰克生活的真相）接着到了第二季，吉娜发现菲尔伯特原来是人格分裂症患者，他才是杀死他妻子以及许多朋友的凶手（戴安包括剧里的其他角色知道了马男所做的所有坏事）。

而这一剧情反转对于菲尔伯特的效果就像陶德在第三季第十集结尾对马男说出的那一段爆炸性台词：

没错，在第五季重新做人的马男，又开始被他以前做的那些shitty things困扰了。

本季第六集母亲的葬礼stand-up comedy和第十集戴安和马男的争吵甚至在剧本里给马男下套这些剧情加剧了马男的自责，再加上马男天生不善于把自己的痛苦展露给别人，不愿意和朋友谈论这些事情，于是他又开始投向毒品的怀抱。

就像在酒桌上喝酒如饮水吨吨吨的中年男人一样，马男寄希望于毒品和酒精之类的快感以冲淡中年危机带给他源源不断的痛苦。

美国的一部纪录片《面具之下》提出由于典型的masculine概念深入人心，很多男性没有方法去表达自己内心的苦闷，于是他们偏执地独自忍耐下去，就如波杰克的父亲在第6集开头告诉他的道理：“你不能依赖任何人”，很多男性观众会觉得这种说法无比熟悉吧，就像小时候我们会被教导的：“像个男人”、“不要像女孩一样哭鼻子”，在这样教导下成长的男性，如果生活遇到了困难，他们通常拥有两种选择：1. 对身边人发泄（通常是自己的妻子和孩子）2. 对自己发泄（导致严重的心理问题）因为在男性的世界里是很少有像“去找心理咨询师治疗”、“和朋友倾诉自己生活中的伤痛”这样一般女性会选择的选项。

“男人”一开始就是“顶天立地”的形象，不论流多少血都能和生活逆境战斗到最后一刻的生物。

在父权社会里，他们是把整个社会撑起来的人，也同时是家庭的顶梁柱。

但是这样的“男权”给男性带来的真的是好处吗？

那些在酒场豪饮的中年男人、那些在商业会所陪客户唱着卡拉OK的中年男人、那些在厕所里呕吐甚至是在医院里住院的中年男人又是多少人的父亲呢？

他们经常出门躲避的是什么？

是你。

或者可以说，他躲的是一段健康的、正常沟通的情感。

因为这不符合社会给他们定下的形象，他们从没被教导过如何成为一个能够正常表达负面情绪的人类。

回到bojack，他在第五季从来没有和吉娜谈过任何心里的不安，而PC由于领养孩子太忙了所以无暇照顾马男，那么bojack这个巨婴就留给了戴安（同时也是戴安得知马男在新墨西哥和17岁少女可能有染的时候）但由于戴安不愿意照顾他，甚至在剧本里混入了马男曾经真实说过的台词，使他再次被懊恼和痛苦包围。

如此一来，第五季的最后，波杰克首先选择了第一个选项：把自己内心的痛苦推向其他人，觉得是有人要破坏“吉娜的幸福”（其实就是他当时得到的简单又复杂的幸福）最终在演戏的时候差点掐死吉娜。

第二季被砍之后又转身向戴安要求执行第二个选项：让戴安写文章披露自己，也就是伤害他自己。

于是在本剧的最后一小段，戴安（出于愧疚？

）试图帮助波杰克走出这种“定式思维”并给出了一个新的选项：“戒毒所”，有点像是心理咨询的存在。

马男又质疑：“如果我戒毒之后，我还是像以前一样那么糟糕怎么办？

那我还不如回家”戴安说：“听着，你有两个选项，你可以回家，试图以你的方式去做你一生以来一直在做的那些事情，或者你可以看看这些人能做什么。

”这也给男性观众提供了一条新的思路：为何要执着于封闭自己，把所有的伤痛都用酒精或者毒品掩盖？

你本可以试试看其他人能为你做什么。

而不是成为父权社会的一个消耗品，一个抑郁的电池。

这也是全剧最女权的一部分了。

I was so blown by the genius of the director at the last but one episode when Bojack overdosed and cannot tell the difference between set scene and reality. Yea, obviously he’s got a problem or maybe even a bunch of problems to face up to, who says we haven’t? But it is not as simple as who you are or who you want to be, it’s the environment you live in and the connections you engage in that determine what you are and what you should be. Like Diane said and I paraphrase:“U can be bad and do bad stuff, but you cannot justify your deeds like it is right, ‘cause it is not right.” That said, the journey of discovering the true inner self and striving to be a good man can never stop. Good luck, to all of us.

从S1到现在的S5，一直在追BoJack Horseman。

BoJack Horseman S5刚上映的当天，我一口气刷到了E10，整个过程从满怀期待到渐渐麻木，那种很颓的麻木。

我不是个专业的剧评人，无法从各个层面去分析剧情的结构，也不懂什么专业名词，全靠意识流与共鸣去欣赏。

我知道按照以往套路，E11一定会发生什么很丧的事，所以停下来调整心态。

可当我以为我做好准备点开播放时，那一集还是让我感受到了痛苦。

整部剧荒诞的格调与现实撞击在一起，在BoJack爬上楼梯看着巨大的Philbert，我突然被这似曾相识的无奈重创心头，虽然最后一集的结局与s4的结局同样疗愈，但我始终记得那个茫然无助的眼神。

看完后，我翻了翻影评，大部分人都在称赞E06是神作，将整季拉高了好几个档次，我倒觉得还好，反正看到大家还是一样的丧，就放心了。

二刷BoJack Horseman S5是突然的，由于之前状态不好，所以一刷的时候很多感觉都很模糊，只记得本季是由BoJack拍摄一部新剧《Philbert》开始的。

当二刷完成后，想把心里面的冠军集搬给E02。

她除了丰富Diane的人物性格以外，也运用了非常厉害的手法，将看似独立的故事毫无痕迹地渗透到了后面的剧情，即使没有埋下伏笔。

Diane当之无愧成为了这一季的最佳配角。

甚至在主线内核的表达作用比BoJack更为重要。

剖析性别平权，深入挖掘友谊，质问施暴者内心的内疚与痛苦难道应该成为被原谅的理由？

许多问题经由Diane被展现给观众，但魅力之处就在于这部剧永远不会给你对错或者答案。

上一季原生家庭创伤也是遗留给了观众自己思考。

E02里Diane去了越南旅游，给自己列了十条去越南旅游的原因，或者是去寻根，或者是可以放纵，摆脱原来的生活。

可在最亲近的异乡中，她仍感觉到了这十个原因只是借口。

而

E03与E04对于Todd无性恋的恋爱问题和Hollywoo男性凝视问题分别进行了更深层次的探讨，同时在E03中BoJeck鼓励与自己拍戏的女一号Gina大胆的去实现自己的歌星梦，虽然最后以Gina的破音失败告终，但两人的感情线持续升温，紧扣着剧情的发展。

E05的双时间线叙事完整了P.C的性格成因与对待婚姻的观念，也为后面的剧情埋下了重要的伏笔。

而再看一遍E06之后，也才终于明白为什么会是神作了。

BoJack在母亲Beatrice的葬礼上二十分钟的独白，内容输出不只密集，还环环相扣。

他说，在他陪伴Beatrice走过最后的那几天，Beatrice对他说过的最后一句话是I see you，他不明白这句话到底是什么意思。

母亲一生都在责怪他，挖苦他，他怨恨他的家庭，怨恨父亲的自负与母亲的刻薄，怨恨家庭无休止的争吵，但他同样意识到了其实父母和他一样，都是在生活中溺水的人（马），对于溺水的人而言，能得到那一口空气的喘息是那么美好。

或许Beatrice说的那一句I see you想表达的，是她在临终前，终于看见了这一生同样在挣扎的BoJack。

不是的BoJack，其实Beatrice早知道她对你造成了太多的伤害，所以她曾经才会对你说，你生来就支离破碎。

当BoJack在追溯自己前半生的家庭鲜有的美好回忆后，他或许原谅了Beatrice，至少他心软了。

可当他突然反应过来母亲说的那句I see you，只不过是在读ICU的牌子时，他又变回了那匹尖酸刻薄的马。

他说：我妈妈死了，我得到的只有免费的油条。

E07与E08依旧保持着高水准，E07的双线叙事就已经够看了，E08的四线交错叙事简直不要太精彩。

不得不说花生酱先生在本季有了一点点改变，与Diane离婚让他开始反思恋爱中自己的不足与婚姻。

四条时间线平行推进，以每年一度的万圣节派对为背景，以相似的结局收场，对于我这种老粉来说，各式各样的彩蛋比所想表达的问题更吸引我。

算是对老粉的一种回馈吧。

E09与E10开始将剧情带入了后半段，聚焦的问题变少了，人物的矛盾开始进入白热化阶段。

BoJack因为E05中P.C暂时离开剧组的原因，在拍戏时从五楼摔下，住院期间医生给他开的止疼药使他产生了依赖性。

E09中他对药物的依赖性逐渐强烈，不惜将自己的车撞向别人的车制造车祸，以此来换得止疼药（其实严格上说是换取心中对于滥用药物的过意不去）。

而E10在新戏《Philbert》首映会大获成功后，戏中角色的脆弱性被人们喜爱上，Diane作为该剧的编剧之一，她认为坏人的脆弱不应该是他被人原谅的筹码。

这种在她眼里不好的导向使得她在首映会中与BoJack大吵一架。

BoJack认为在往季里他所有做过的烂事里，他也是一个受害者。

他带着内心的愧疚痛苦的活着，甚至认为他才是最痛苦的那个人。

而Diane根本无法理喻，她提到了因为BoJack死去的Sara Lynn，BoJack无言以对。

虽然最后这场争吵不欢而散，但Diane还是觉得BoJack有救。

其实Diane这么愤怒，不仅仅有E12里她的上司所说的用过高的标准要求自己与身边的所有人，还有Diane始终保持着自我否定。

她将这种自我否定代入了BoJack的身上，在骂他的时候同样在发泄内心里那个很矛盾的自己。

E11中，因为滥用药物，且剧本塑造的Philbert形象与自己过于相似，BoJack已经马戏不分，在一次次拍戏的过程与自己的生活搞混后，拍戏时他死死地掐着Gina的脖子，以为剧中的生活就是现实世界，以至于导演喊卡都没有松手，差点将Gina掐死。

最后BoJack意识到了问题所在，登向那个虚幻的楼梯，看着漂浮着空中巨大的Philbert气球，失去了那段记忆。

抛开剧情来说，这一集的手法可以说是成人童话题材里教科书级别的。

说是神作也不为过。

在对BoJack精神层面的剖析上会比S1E11里更直白。

可能因为有些悲伤是遥远且相似的，而身在其中的我没有办法去解读这一集结构上有什么诟病或者牛逼之处。

只是看完好像和S3E11一样，胸口一闷，千言万语如鲠在喉。

E12交代完其它角色在本季中的最终走向后，最后时间给到了Diane和BoJack。

为了治疗药物成瘾，Diane陪BoJack来到了戒毒所门口。

分别时BoJack问，为什么你对我这么好，明明我做了那么多让你伤心的事。

Diane说了她高二时期被朋友背叛的事情。

她说，我恨她，她拿我当初告诉她的秘密来攻击我，我没有办法原谅她。

可是，当她的妈妈重病时，我去陪她了。

因为她曾经是我最好的朋友而她需要我。

Diane一直想塑造自己是一个有原则，有态度的人，她想靠自己的力量保护自己，可这段话就是打开了自己心防，可以看出她其实没有真的讨厌BoJeck，只是她不知道怎么去面对自己。

就像那句话说的。

我想变得更好，却不知道该怎么做。

这句话可以说是这一季丧的主题了，因为不仅仅是用作Diane与BoJack身上，而可以用在任何一个角色身上。

就连最快乐的花生酱先生也不例外。

可是最丧的真的只有这样吗，反观整季所有角色，想起了那个差点被掐死的Gina。

在没有《Philbert》这部剧之前，她一直都默默无闻的演着配角，习惯了不将情感带到戏中。

可她这一次喜欢上了BoJack，也因此差点死于这匹男马之手。

片场的人将那段视频流向大众时，公关危机随之到来，失去那段记忆的BoJack看了自己差点掐死Gina的视频后，想对媒体说出真相，那就是一次人身攻击，而不是演戏，想以此得到对自我的宽慰或者弥补Gina，而Gina对BoJack说，我不管你有什么病，但我不允许你毁了这部剧，这部剧使我第一次对人生感到希望，我不想我的后半生别人提起了我只想到我身上有你的烙印。

这时候我才意识到，原来不只是“我想变得更好，却不知道该怎么做”的人丧，就连“我想变得更好，也知道该怎么做”的人也很丧。

最后还是想聊聊那个老生常谈的话题，上一季被放大，这一季被淡化的原生家庭创伤。

E06谈到的原生家庭或许更多的偏向是疗愈和原谅，所以不想也不敢对神集过分解读。

真正让我有所感触的是，E05里小时候的P.C。

我也曾是在B站弹幕里陪着P.C度过她孤独的生日并真诚的希望她生日快乐的人，她是所有人里最值得被爱的。

S4E11里对于Beatrice的家庭创伤阴影和所带给下一代的这种典型的家庭文化传播已经演绎得淋漓尽致，似乎BoJack Horseman里每个ZOE都有一个不完美的童年。

（那两个失散多年的兄妹最后没有相认其实更像是编剧为了想表达性格悲观不是因为原生家庭创伤引起的）所以当P.C回忆起她的童年时，我就很诧异给这个强势不服输的Zelda安排一段不怎么美好的回忆到底想干嘛。

我重看了S4E11后似乎找到了答案。

原来我一开始就理解错了。

S4并不是想放大原生家庭创伤，而是想弱化它，或转变大家对于这件事的看法，只是用了比较极端的表达手法。

BoJack Horseman提出原生家庭创伤背后的本质，不是希望人们将悲伤或对现实世界的不满归咎于它，把我脆弱我悲伤全都怪罪于原生家庭创伤，而是希望大家向前看，忘记那些悲伤，因为当你陷入其中，对你的下一代可能会产生一个循环。

就像P.C最后拒绝了母亲让她再留下一年陪她的请求，毅然决然地走了。

迎接她的是未来生活的希望，是成为女飞行员Amelia Earhart的梦想，而不是过去的伤痛。

所以，BoJack Horseman到底在丧什么？

这个问题的答案，或许有些人眼里是面对生活的无助与绝望，仍旧要强颜欢笑，或许是生而为人我很抱歉，或许有些人眼里只是杞人忧天。

找到共鸣都不是这部剧的本意，只愿你想要变得更好。

老话一句：阳光风趣外向的Zelda一生都要学习如何体会别人，而敏感刻薄内向的Zoe一生都要学习如何放过自己。

最后，恭喜BoJack Horseman第六季正式续订期待下次再见。

我主要从西方心理咨询这个视角，对每集的关键要点作了如下分集提炼。

按每三集一组，分了四组。

其中，大爱第五、六集。

第六集爆炸的IMBD评分（史上最高？

）了解一下：https://m.imdb.com/title/tt8266826/?ref_=m_ttep_ep_ep6以下为四组提炼。

第一组ep1 【生活方向】♦ Todd五季以来对明确的【生活方向】的持续追求。

ep2 【孤独/无归属感、无意义感】♦ 戴安的咨询师首次出场。

♦ 离婚激发了戴安的【孤独/无归属感、无意义感】ep3 【真实的自我】【不期待】♦ Gina被现实【压抑】的梦想（霍妮谈“真我”） 。

我们内心的冲突8.8卡伦霍妮 / 2015 / 译林出版社♦ 零期待以自保（@叔本华 存在主义心理治疗的思想基础）。

人生的智慧9.3[德] 叔本华 / 2014 / 上海人民出版社♦ 提了下《the wire》（隐含了编剧认可该老剧的深度）。

火线 第五季 (2008)9.72008 / 美国 / 剧情 悬疑 惊悚 犯罪 / 乔·施佩尔 厄内斯特·R·迪克森 乔伊·凯肯 斯科特凯肯 丹尼尔·艾提奥斯 阿格涅丝卡·霍兰 塞斯·曼恩 多米尼克·韦斯特 安东尼·海明威 克拉克·约翰森 / 多米尼克·韦斯特 雷格·E·凯蒂第二组ep4 暂无暂无ep5 【亲子代关系】♦ 卡洛琳的母子关系 @圆桌派-母子关系这期，萨特谈身体痛苦甚于精神痛苦。

阅后感：看到卡洛琳的UCLA录取函时 想到了自己的大学录取回忆；结尾卡洛琳毅然离乡时 继续泪奔。

ep6 【亲子代关系】【亲代冲突】【死亡恐惧】【孤独】♦ 父母间的严重冲突状况、父母把马男作为无反抗能力的情绪垃圾桶，对马男的成年状况的根本性的显著影响。

原生家庭8.3（美）苏珊·福沃德博士 （美）克雷格·巴克 [美国] 苏珊·福沃德 / 2018 / 北京时代华文书局（令和首日 一日看完 力荐）

儿童精神分析8.3[英]梅兰妮•克莱茵 / 2016 / 世界图书出版公司

101个心理治疗难题8.6Jerome S. Blackman / 2016 / 中国轻工业出版社

精神分析诊断9.6]美] N. McWilliams / 2015 / 中国轻工业出版社

精神分析治愈之道9.6[美] 海因茨·科胡特 / 2016 / 重庆大学出版社

思想等待思想者8.5[澳] Joan Symington [澳] Neville Symington / 2015 / 中国轻工业出版社♦ 被亲代教育【不能依靠任何人】 。

♦ 为母亲致悼词：回忆母亲讲了大道理后归罪于儿子、一生不愿示亲密于儿子等状况，展现对父母两人的极度愤怒。

♦ 呈现了父母之死带来的【死亡恐惧】。

直视骄阳：征服死亡恐惧8.7欧文·亚隆 / 2015 / 中国轻工业出版社

死亡哲学7.8[美] 谢利·卡根 / 2016 / 北京联合出版公司♦ 结尾神升华：“ICU”谐音梗提示了每人都need “to be seen”，且暗示了马男母亲也没有从其亲代处得到“to be seen”的关爱。

♦ 剧末点睛：【to be seen： 对于被关注的期待】。

第三组ep7 【求助】【孤独】♦ 大量调侃咨询业 ♦ "it's just good to have someone to talk to"ep8 【焦虑】【亲密模式】【自我呈现】♦ 狗男的亲密关系模式 ♦ 凯瑟琳的年龄焦虑 ♦ Todd对承担责任的焦虑 ♦ 新炮友谈波杰克的自我呈现

日常生活中的自我呈现8.6（美）欧文·戈夫曼 / 2008 / 北京大学出版社ep9 【孤独】【亲密关系】♦ 通过全新领域的app（这个我反复设想过5年以上的手段），来【寻找同类】（以建立更高质量亲密关系）的todd第四组ep10 【人际冲突】♦ 欲海中，未化解旧仇的2个老段子手：

意愿的冲撞8.4[美] 罗杰·古尔德 / 2017 / 华东师范大学出版社ep11 职场【暴力】 ♦ #metoo运动 的发酵过程。

ep12 【自我保护与成长】【高压】♦ 【对自己好一点：像对待自己希望保护的人一样 宽容、体谅自己】@芒格与乔丹·皮特森的提醒

12 Rules for Life7.9Jordan B. Peterson / 2018 / Random House Canada♦ 高强度工作（以凯瑟琳PR工作为例）易导致亲子关系问题。

♦ 女演员为了事业/资本所付出的巨大的【心理/情绪代价】。

♦ 戒药物成瘾：突破过去的舒适区、对专业人士求助，求得成长。

♦ 狗男一会儿向前妻求复合，被拒绝后转头又向新女友求婚。

编剧想凸显其乐观个性？！

♦ 被朋友“朋友”背叛、在关系中重伤的戴安。

结尾，普锐斯中的戴安独自启程。

我们 又回到了各自的生活，还得继续过下去。

裸辞后， 18-09-16 听着伴我来沪的YUI《Tokyo》写下这个短记，for me。

181110的新发现（于喜马拉雅与微信均可搜到）：《马男波杰克》的存在主义哲学：个体挣扎、社会现实、文化观念 （by小声喧哗 林三土）190811 快看完《曾奇峰精神分析视频50讲》后的新发现：B站【假蚁出品】ScreenPrism | 光影棱镜 | 马男波杰克 v.s. 广告狂人 | 第一季 · 第一集191111 双十一发福利：马男s6影评【西方心理咨询视角 第二弹】Get a WHY to live for（每周更新）

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